It’s a fact we tend to want to fit in with the person we are dating. Sure, we are all unique, but we want to, as a couple, look untied and as if we “fit”. You confirm to the environment that you’re in – so it’s only natural that when you’re dating someone, even automatically […]
How many of you can honestly say they haven’t made a few mistakes when they meet someone new? Sometimes good people make bad choices. It doesn’t mean they are bad….it means they are human. You learn from them and go on because a mistake is one thing. A pattern is another. There are loads […]
https://matchmakerforhire.com/wp-content/uploads/dating-mistakes-2.jpg6751200Jane Carstenshttp://matchmakerforhire.com/wp-content/uploads/mm4h.pngJane Carstens2022-04-01 11:57:232022-04-01 12:02:50Everyone Makes Mistakes in Dating
I’ve seen it over and over in hundreds of smart, high-achieving singles I speak to and yet today, I still get the same question- “How do I know if or when I’m being too hard on myself when it comes to dating?”. In working with singles over the last 20 years, we find most are […]
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While Covid has been a good excuse for not meeting up with just anyone, and he’s burnt out from dating apps , yet he’s never down in the dumps because he doesn’t have a partner. He would just love to meet someone who’s active and outdoorsy, and actually interested in him. He is an amazing […]
There’s really no great time to do it, unfortunately, one of those break up periods is upon us. Statistics put together from Facebook data, show 2 big spikes. One right after Valentine’s Day, but the sharpest increase by far happen in the weeks that lead up to spring break (which officially starts this week). While […]
Like all people, we are deserving of love and connection. Here are a couple things to keep in mind for anyone wanting to avoid the so-called, real life “Tinder Swindler” while navigating the world in today’s dating. Experiences have taught me that practiced too early on (before trust and a foundation have been established), excessive […]
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Born and raised a Toronto girl with nothing more than passion, a computer, a love for the West Coast, and for the last 20 years I have remained insatiably curious about human connections. What makes singles genuinely happy, successful, and fulfilled while searching for the one? It is possible to dream big without […]
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We have found that it is UNLIKELY that two people would get together to date in today’s world if they had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING in common. In fact, the relationship goals of most of the singles, looking for relationships that we meet, are quite different than those of the past. Although it’s known that skiing, […]
Most singles love January – they think it’s a time for a new beginning, and to refresh and reset their love lives. Yet, some people like May, when the first signs of summer start and everything feels easy again. For Matchmakers its February. It’s always been a fabulous month for us and the month where […]
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Ok, you have been warned; there are no excuses. Just when you were resting on your laurels making it thru the holidays being single; boom it will be Valentines Day! Not that we want to politicize Valentine’s Day, as we are still in a pandemic and not supposed to be touching people, but call it […]
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Getting Matchy-Matchy
It’s a fact we tend to want to fit in with the person we are dating. Sure, we are all unique, but we want to, as a couple, look untied and as if we “fit”. You confirm to the environment that you’re in – so it’s only natural that when you’re dating someone, even automatically […]
Everyone Makes Mistakes in Dating
How many of you can honestly say they haven’t made a few mistakes when they meet someone new? Sometimes good people make bad choices. It doesn’t mean they are bad….it means they are human. You learn from them and go on because a mistake is one thing. A pattern is another. There are loads […]
How to know if/when we are being too hard on ourselves.
I’ve seen it over and over in hundreds of smart, high-achieving singles I speak to and yet today, I still get the same question- “How do I know if or when I’m being too hard on myself when it comes to dating?”. In working with singles over the last 20 years, we find most are […]
Single Dad’s ; Spring Break Alert
While Covid has been a good excuse for not meeting up with just anyone, and he’s burnt out from dating apps , yet he’s never down in the dumps because he doesn’t have a partner. He would just love to meet someone who’s active and outdoorsy, and actually interested in him. He is an amazing […]
Yes, it’s “Spring Break (up)” Season, Baby.
There’s really no great time to do it, unfortunately, one of those break up periods is upon us. Statistics put together from Facebook data, show 2 big spikes. One right after Valentine’s Day, but the sharpest increase by far happen in the weeks that lead up to spring break (which officially starts this week). While […]
Be Aware of Fantasy Relationships
Like all people, we are deserving of love and connection. Here are a couple things to keep in mind for anyone wanting to avoid the so-called, real life “Tinder Swindler” while navigating the world in today’s dating. Experiences have taught me that practiced too early on (before trust and a foundation have been established), excessive […]
How NOT to Burn Out, DATING
Born and raised a Toronto girl with nothing more than passion, a computer, a love for the West Coast, and for the last 20 years I have remained insatiably curious about human connections. What makes singles genuinely happy, successful, and fulfilled while searching for the one? It is possible to dream big without […]
Modern Love
We have found that it is UNLIKELY that two people would get together to date in today’s world if they had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING in common. In fact, the relationship goals of most of the singles, looking for relationships that we meet, are quite different than those of the past. Although it’s known that skiing, […]
The February that changed my career—and life.
Most singles love January – they think it’s a time for a new beginning, and to refresh and reset their love lives. Yet, some people like May, when the first signs of summer start and everything feels easy again. For Matchmakers its February. It’s always been a fabulous month for us and the month where […]
There’s ONE MONTH till Valentines Day!
Ok, you have been warned; there are no excuses. Just when you were resting on your laurels making it thru the holidays being single; boom it will be Valentines Day! Not that we want to politicize Valentine’s Day, as we are still in a pandemic and not supposed to be touching people, but call it […]