3 Better-than-Online REAL SINGLES looking for Love this Canada Day! —-Can’t get no Satisfaction?— Finding it hard to think about staying emotionally positive with searching online this weekend? Now’s the time to finally deeper connect with real available Singles!
These better-than-online Singles are serious about finding love, and they’re going to put eHarmony and Match out of business this weekend!
Contact me http://[email protected] for more info and to really meet these great singles!
She certainly doesn’t behave like a sixty-something and she’s never been the cautious type; she doesn’t see the point when she’s petite, blonde and likes wearing a little black dress while driving her MX5.
If you don’t mind golfing in Palm Desert, being in a hot air balloon over a pyramid in Egypt, or having romantic dinners together at home, then why not give it a whirl for a chance to find happiness.
If you or someone you know is a Vancouver Gent in his 60’s who is semi-retired, open-minded and flexible, please contact me to learn more about this great woman. [email protected]
After numerous health problems and maybe a few divorces behind you, it would be fair to say you have experienced, good or bad, quite an interesting life. Here is some insightful information taken from introducing thousands of 60 something singles on gracefully starting over in the dating scene for the next third of their life.
Relationship or Fling?– Most 60 and older singles are looking for a relationship filled with fun, companionship and intimacy (ahem …sex). Not to say marriage is goal, but if the relationship is wonderful – marriage follows.
What are most looking for?– This needs to be divided into 2 categories, what women want and what men want. Women more than often have their own economic and social standing. They are now able to select the man that they want rather than having to choose a man for financial support or social status. Men want a companion with whom to enjoy their golden years. Some want friendship-not sex. Some want sex, and lots of it.
Are all the good ones taken?– While most sixty-something’s tend to opt for modest outfits, today we find most refuse to let their 60 something years define their dress code and lifestyles. Your appearance can make the statement that you respect yourself. Those who can and will are the undiscovered gems. They’re the good ones-not yet taken. Stats say that 54% of the population is single and over 70% of people over 60 and are single date regularly, so that means every day a new crop of potential “good ones” comes on the market…..it’s never been a better time!
If you are re-entering the dating game, the old tried and true method of introductions by friends and family still works, although hiring a Matchmaker can’t hurt!! It’s safe because someone you know and trust, knows and trusts him/her. We call this the credible introduction. I urge all “mature” singles to just get out there or contact me , it’s not as hard as you think!
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If you’re currently looking for love and not including Single Dads in your search, you need to read on. You’re not likely to stumble upon a more selfless or loving guy than one who has raised his kids on his own (or mostly on his own). But hey, don’t take it from us, take it from the guys themselves. Here’s a few quotes from what our single dad clients had to say, about their best reasons why you should date them!
He moves slowly into dating and relationships.
“I got a lot on my plate, and definitely not sitting around swiping left and right on Tinder. Nor do I have a desperation to rush into things, the most important persons are my kids”
That means you may have to take things slow with any guy you date who has kids — but that’s a good thing.
“My kids have a wonderful way of putting things into perspective. If I am going to be the best dad I can be, it isn’t about me” Who wouldn’t appreciate a man who has learned to be selfless to a fault?!!
He’s Responsible.
“I’m fully plugged into my kids’ lives, I accept the obligations and I don’t bad-mouth their mother” That guy will probably be the best guy you’ll ever meet!
“I’ve got little girls and have spent afternoons getting my nails done- sure takes a lot of strength to be soft” If you’re the hand-holding type, you’re definitely in luck, he’s more comfortable with physical touch, who wouldn’t be ok with that!!!!
“The last thing I want to do is introduce someone to my kids, only to have that person disappear down the road” He’s not looking to just hook up, and when you think about it, that’s about as good as dating ever gets!
I am so excited to support the beautiful loving initiative of my new friend, Wendy Williams Watt …YOU ARE LOVED NOTES
I left today armed with my homework and blank pieces of paper and I am passing it forward to my “loving Matchmaker tribe” to handwrite YOU ARE LOVED- on every one of them, for her to give out at the end of July to 50 Thousand open hearts during PRIDE in Vancouver BC.
For those of you who wish to write notes with us this week, please drop by our office, and know that Wendy plans to hand deliver them to as many hearts and palms as possible. We know this first hand—there is always someone waiting to hear they are loved! Big Love Ball Wendy Williams-Watt
We all know that breakups can be really hard and we all cope in our own individual ways. Here’s a couple of ways that might help you heal faster and even help you make a little money to move on and put towards working with a Matchmaker!
The Museum of Broken Relationships (a museum in Zagreb, Croatia) opened up in LA this week and it displays artifacts of personal objects left over from former lovers and failed romances. Accompanying each item are the stories of anonymous individuals who held on to them for years all genuine and authenticity guaranteed.
Ever Gone thru a break up and sell everything your ex gave you well here’s the eBay for break ups. Never Liked it Anyway! A place to shed the stories and the stuff, while clearing out all traces of the exes…..the tell all in the stories are the best however if your superstitious negative history can be a bad thing.
Need inspiration-watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R45HcYA8uRA
Are you haunted by regrets about a relationship from your past that didn’t work out “I should have tried harder” or regret not taking a chance to see what could have been “the one that got away”.
The real truth is that most have had at least a few romantic regrets-and they definitely do matter.
According to a recent study from Northwestern University, while women were more likely than men to have regrets about romantic relationships, men had their fair share as well. About 44 percent of the regrets described by women were about relationship mistakes, compared to 19 percent for men. Despite that obvious gender difference in the study’s results, men who cared deeply for the women they lost are just as regretful, if not more so, than women.
Tip: Use your regrets as motivation to do things differently the next time you’re with someone or thinking of meeting someone new. You’re so ahead of the game if you can learn from the past and not make the same mistake twice.
Bottom line: A healthy amount of regret is a good thing, because it can motivate you to get things right when the chance presents itself with someone new. In the end, we all make romantic mistakes — but it’s how you get up and rebound from them that matters most. Instead of letting regret dominate your thoughts, give yourself credit for what you’ve done right and focus on not repeating those patterns from past relationships that didn’t work out in the future.
I represent a beautiful, petite, blue-eyed Victoria woman who at this point is not necessarily looking for the love of her life, (although it would be nice to find him) she’s just looking to make a friendly connection.
She simply does the things she loves; she looks for art gallery events, enjoys outdoor concerts, nature walks, sidewalk cafes and browsing at Bolen Books. Whether to Parksville or Portugal, she’s open to local weekend getaways or more adventuresome travel.
Are you, or someone you know, a man in his 70’s who is genuine, and would like to meet a woman who has a natural and comfortable energy about her?
Interested? Email me at [email protected]
As seen in the Times Colonist Sunday May 29 2016 – Victoria BC
I currently represent a beautiful, intelligent, adventuresome, urban “girl next door” in the Victoria area who is looking for someone to share life’s great adventures with.
Her belief system is tied to contemporary Christian family values and she is kind, generous, loyal and genuine. This successful entrepreneur enjoys staying active and fit, hosting family and friends in her home, and fitting in trips to warm destinations when she can get away.
If you, or someone you know, is in his 40’s and is kind, with a great sense of humour, has integrity and a strong work ethic, and is looking for someone to share their journey with—take a chance and contact me to begin the pursuit!
Interested? email me at [email protected]
As seen in the Times Colonist in Victoria BC – Saturday May 28, 2016
As you know, laughing increases your threshold for pain, lowers blood pressure, reduces stress hormones, and triggers the release of endorphins – your body’s natural painkillers. A good chuckle can even be contagious, uplifting the mood of those around you and enhancing the quality of …….yes, even you’re DATING experiences.
Here’s a few self-induced, laugh therapy warm-up tips to try prior to your stressful DATING LIFE;
Tip#1: Stream 30 minutes of your favorite comedy while getting ready for your date; after all, an episode of Brooklyn Nine-Nine or a Comedy Central rerun is far more likely to put a smile on your face than your newsfeed.
Tip#2: That long ride to your date can sometimes be tortuous so downloading humour to your playlist will make your commuting journey a lot easier to take if you have something to listen to that tickles your funny bone.
Tip#3: You don’t have to bust a gut to reap the rewards of laughter. Even smiling when you don’t feel like it can change the mood and relax your body language. So smile more!
Note: “Laughter is the shortest distance between two people” Victor Borge