Many singles say they’re in the same boat; anxious, overwhelmed with wide-eyes, hoping for the best and just days away from a new set of resolutions to find love in 2018! If you’re single and want to get into a relationship in the coming year, you can’t expect to do the same things over and over again expecting different results. So, if you were unhappy in romance last year, I’ve absolutely got you covered with these great steps to say goodbye to a lonely 2017 and have a happy 2018!
Embrace being Single; Not in the sense of accepting it, but by living your life happily as a single person. The irony is that when you embrace the single life in this way, you become much more attractive to others. A fun, confident person living his or her life to the fullest is very attractive. Be that person!
Get a Life; Meaning an active social life. Besides, attraction involves lots of biological functions, which doesn’t always translate well to photos and bios online. If your social network is limited, then check out activities that you’ll enjoy and meet other people. So, if you like running, do a running event. If you’re into board games, find something related to that.
Give Chances; Give people you normally wouldn’t a chance. Now, I’m not saying to settle (see next resolution). But, I am talking about this scenario: you meet someone cool and you feel attraction. You get to know him or her and you click. But, since that person “isn’t your type” or is too old, young, short, tall, poor, rich, or anything else you’ve set in your head as an artificial boundary, you are tempted to stop the budding relationship. Too many people miss the silver lining because they’re expecting gold.
Don’t Settle; While you should always keep an open mind to good people you find attractive (see previous resolution), you don’t want to go the other route where you settle with someone simply because you’re lonely or feel pressure to “settle down.”
Ahhh New Year’s Resolutions. They’re a great opportunity to really set ourselves up for some magnificent failures and remarkable victories in finding LOVE…………amirite?
How can it be the New Year already?
Many singles say they’re in the same boat; anxious, overwhelmed with wide-eyes, hoping for the best and just days away from a new set of resolutions to find love in 2018! If you’re single and want to get into a relationship in the coming year, you can’t expect to do the same things over and over again expecting different results. So, if you were unhappy in romance last year, I’ve absolutely got you covered with these great steps to say goodbye to a lonely 2017 and have a happy 2018!
Embrace being Single; Not in the sense of accepting it, but by living your life happily as a single person. The irony is that when you embrace the single life in this way, you become much more attractive to others. A fun, confident person living his or her life to the fullest is very attractive. Be that person!
Get a Life; Meaning an active social life. Besides, attraction involves lots of biological functions, which doesn’t always translate well to photos and bios online. If your social network is limited, then check out activities that you’ll enjoy and meet other people. So, if you like running, do a running event. If you’re into board games, find something related to that.
Give Chances; Give people you normally wouldn’t a chance. Now, I’m not saying to settle (see next resolution). But, I am talking about this scenario: you meet someone cool and you feel attraction. You get to know him or her and you click. But, since that person “isn’t your type” or is too old, young, short, tall, poor, rich, or anything else you’ve set in your head as an artificial boundary, you are tempted to stop the budding relationship. Too many people miss the silver lining because they’re expecting gold.
Don’t Settle; While you should always keep an open mind to good people you find attractive (see previous resolution), you don’t want to go the other route where you settle with someone simply because you’re lonely or feel pressure to “settle down.”
Ahhh New Year’s Resolutions. They’re a great opportunity to really set ourselves up for some magnificent failures and remarkable victories in finding LOVE…………amirite?
Are you Single again just in time for Christmas?
Now if you cave in to the cries of the dating massive, true love probably isn’t in the cards. Matchmaking ensures you’re only exposed to like minds and people who meet your criteria. You don’t want to waste your time with someone who’s not even verified, do you? Think of how much better it will be if both you and your partner come recommended; verification that you are both important and deserving of love.
There’s plenty to celebrate about good relationships, but in a world where being single makes you feel like an oddity its time to change the focus. Make this year the year there will be NO moping about your marital status, NO joining the festive Christmas-y stampede in the bedroom, just make the most of your alone time while it lasts. Our clients say; once they found The One, there’s no going back to the luxury of being completely selfish, so enjoy some rum spiked noggy for the duration of the holidays.
A Partner isn’t just for Christmas – it’s for LIFE.
Awkward Sex Talk and Dating – Brace yourself, this is uncomfortable!
It’s always exciting to start a new relationship, but we often forget about the ridiculously awkward parts that accompany that just-started-dating period. So, if you recently started seeing someone new, you might want to prepare yourself for these uncomfortable moments that you’re bound to encounter and it just might be on the first date. But hey, love is worth it, right?
Let’s be honest, first dates, while exciting can also be downright terrifying. We either freeze under pressure, awkward silences abound or worse, its full of sexual tension with flirtatious exchanges. You should however use this time together to playfully grill each other — while, you know, throwing in some flirting for good measure. Like that scene in (movie you’ve both seen) where you end with “did you ever do things like that?” Risqué questions wrapped in an anecdote wrapped in a flirt. Makes for fun conversation fodder and a way to get to know someone beyond dinner. Of course, if you are ever in a moment where the talk seems weird, gross and very uncomfortable, whether knowingly or unintentionally, let me be very clear, there is no excuse for this kind of behavior and make it clear right away you are no longer interested.
Our motto is “always be prepared” and remember that uncomfortable feelings and difficult experience are all part of dating.
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She’s Perfect, Anyway…..
If you are a single gent 60+with goals for your self and want to be with a woman who has goals for her own life too , contact us to hear more! [email protected]
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You see them. You know ….. that COUPLE!
The couple that’s together and you don’t recall a time of them being on their own. That couple whose personalities are either too similar to too different. That couple that, from the outside looking in don’t look like they might fit but they just do.
In order to say two people as a couple, are perfect for each other, we have put together a few phrases we have heard over the years to express they are a perfect match to each other.
IF you or someone you know is a Gent in his 60’s or 70’s, living in Canada or the US with goals for yourself and want to be with a woman who has goals for her own life too, then read on……and contact me at [email protected]
Are you a Beach or Mountain Person?
Do you relish the view of the sea or is the vista of the mountains your out-and-out favorite? Don’t be surprised if your potential partner just doesn’t appreciate the same view –does that makes some of you let out a big sigh when it comes to dating? According to research and our own experience of matching couples for 16 years people should consider personalities and lifestyles more closely when choosing a partner.
Let’s see what a mountain view choice can say about your personality.
There is no evidence that living in the mountains makes people prefer their own company and it equally doesn’t mean that they like being alone either. So, if you tend to like the mountains and the greens and spending quality time together then I am going to end this piece with a possibility! If you are a single woman in her 50’s contact me [email protected] for a personal and confidential interview to meet this client. ***As seen in the North Shore News, Sunday November 26, 2017.
Sea to Sky Guy Looking for Love
As seen in today’s North Shore News – Sunday November 22, 2017
Does the Dating Game feel more like a War Zone for you?
What I have found in this fearsome new world is there has been some big changes in particular and a new heartlessness pervades dating. This means people are cut-throat and brash about what they want, and if they don’t see it immediately in an online profile or in a face to face date, they are gone. Second is the seemingly irresistible rise of internet dating. The past decade, online dating has gone from somewhat of a freak show, to today, having the “creeping” capabilities to root out a host of eccentrics on every site.
So, you ask yourself how do I find myself still single all the while your thinking about the possibility of finding love again? With the recent statistics in Canada revealing that 54% of the population is single, the newly single should never give up and bear one thing in mind—positivity is contagious, and always retain your sense of humor. That way if you’re hurt, you wont stay hurt for long.
Oh, hiring a Matchmaker can’t hurt either!
Single Women 60+ and the Pitfalls of Questing for Love
Being older than 60, single and looking for romance has never been easy, and for women who typically outnumber single men, its especially challenging. While the internet makes it easer for women over 60 who didn’t grow up with the “worldwide web” to get outside their social circles for dating and romance, I know from speaking to many singles everyday, it only makes them more vulnerable to deception.
Here’s a couple of examples that some have discovered;
Now, I am not saying that you should be afraid to go online, yes, you will meet some frogs, but with a little cautiousness it does increase the odds — and that’s why we’re not going to end this piece without a happy story.
“I am ready to meet my soul mate. Before we even met she knew what I am looking for in a partner, and that is one of the great advantages, I think with working with Jane”. He further comments “Despite the 6-1, woman to man ratio on the island, I know she will find the perfect match that compliments for us both” he says.
If you are in your 60’s, living on Vancouver Island contact me [email protected] for a personal and confidential interview for a potential to meet my client.
She’s Pretty Irresistible!
WARNING! ****** She’s Pretty Irresistible!
Finding a meaningful relationship with an incredible man who can stand by her side are top priorities for this beautiful woman.
If you’re an active, thoughtful, honest and confident guy, in your late 40’s to mid-50’s, you could be the perfect match, contact me [email protected]