If you’re currently looking for love and not including Single Dads in your search, you need to read on. You’re not likely to stumble upon a more selfless or loving guy than one who has raised his kids on his own (or mostly on his own). But hey, don’t take it from us, take it from the guys themselves. Here’s a few quotes from what our single dad clients had to say, about their best reasons why you should date them!
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He moves slowly into dating and relationships.
“I got a lot on my plate, and definitely not sitting around swiping left and right on Tinder. Nor do I have a desperation to rush into things, the most important persons are my kids”
That means you may have to take things slow with any guy you date who has kids — but that’s a good thing.
“My kids have a wonderful way of putting things into perspective. If I am going to be the best dad I can be, it isn’t about me” Who wouldn’t appreciate a man who has learned to be selfless to a fault?!!
“I’m fully plugged into my kids’ lives, I accept the obligations and I don’t bad-mouth their mother” That guy will probably be the best guy you’ll ever meet!
“I’ve got little girls and have spent afternoons getting my nails done- sure takes a lot of strength to be soft” If you’re the hand-holding type, you’re definitely in luck, he’s more comfortable with physical touch, who wouldn’t be ok with that!!!!
“The last thing I want to do is introduce someone to my kids, only to have that person disappear down the road” He’s not looking to just hook up, and when you think about it, that’s about as good as dating ever gets!
Find Love on a Float Home?
If you lived in Vancouver circa 1887 you would have found “Bachelors Hall”. A float home full of eligible bachelors! This wouldn’t be complete without….. fast forwarding to 1993 and mentioning the film Sleepless in Seattle. A more romanticized take on LOVE on a Float Home.
“You can’t control the wind but you can adjust your sails”
The worst dating feedback is NO feedback!
We all have our fairshare of bad dates! Olympic swimmer Ryan Lochte recently speaks out about his not so winning date- calling her a “dud”.
It didnt work out- at least he was honest! What do you think?
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/ryan-lochte-describes-his-worst-tinder-date-ever-w431366
Know when to bring in the Pro’s – Blush Vancouver Magazine Interview
“Know when to bring in the professionals” say my friends at Blush Vancouver. Their Zest column explored with me in a recent article, My Quest to find Love for those that seek it!
http://blushvancouver.com/zest-jane-carstens/
Kissing across Cultures; It might surprise you!
Snogging, smooching, necking—whatever you call it, everyone’s doing it. Or are they? 10% of the world don’t partake in kissing at all!
Read here for a brief history of Kissing across Cultures
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Who’s TAKEN on Facebook?
Do you update your relationship status on Facebook? We heard about a study that showed 54% of people lie about their relationship status on social media. It also said that 77% of the people on internet that post they are single, are actually in relationships! And get this, the other 23% of people that say they are in a relationship… ARE LYING!!!
Here’s what we think of them and the message they are sending……
What do you think?
Searching online for LOVE this weekend?
Contact me http://[email protected] for more info and to really meet these great singles!
Are you a Vancouver Gent in your 60’s – read on!
She certainly doesn’t behave like a sixty-something and she’s never been the cautious type; she doesn’t see the point when she’s petite, blonde and likes wearing a little black dress while driving her MX5.
If you don’t mind golfing in Palm Desert, being in a hot air balloon over a pyramid in Egypt, or having romantic dinners together at home, then why not give it a whirl for a chance to find happiness.
If you or someone you know is a Vancouver Gent in his 60’s who is semi-retired, open-minded and flexible, please contact me to learn more about this great woman. [email protected]
Sixty-Something and Looking for Happiness – Why Not?
After numerous health problems and maybe a few divorces behind you, it would be fair to say you have experienced, good or bad, quite an interesting life. Here is some insightful information taken from introducing thousands of 60 something singles on gracefully starting over in the dating scene for the next third of their life.
If you are re-entering the dating game, the old tried and true method of introductions by friends and family still works, although hiring a Matchmaker can’t hurt!! It’s safe because someone you know and trust, knows and trusts him/her. We call this the credible introduction. I urge all “mature” singles to just get out there or contact me , it’s not as hard as you think!
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5 Heartfelt Facts to Date a Single Dad
If you’re currently looking for love and not including Single Dads in your search, you need to read on. You’re not likely to stumble upon a more selfless or loving guy than one who has raised his kids on his own (or mostly on his own). But hey, don’t take it from us, take it from the guys themselves. Here’s a few quotes from what our single dad clients had to say, about their best reasons why you should date them!
“I got a lot on my plate, and definitely not sitting around swiping left and right on Tinder. Nor do I have a desperation to rush into things, the most important persons are my kids”
That means you may have to take things slow with any guy you date who has kids — but that’s a good thing.
“My kids have a wonderful way of putting things into perspective. If I am going to be the best dad I can be, it isn’t about me” Who wouldn’t appreciate a man who has learned to be selfless to a fault?!!
“I’m fully plugged into my kids’ lives, I accept the obligations and I don’t bad-mouth their mother” That guy will probably be the best guy you’ll ever meet!
“I’ve got little girls and have spent afternoons getting my nails done- sure takes a lot of strength to be soft” If you’re the hand-holding type, you’re definitely in luck, he’s more comfortable with physical touch, who wouldn’t be ok with that!!!!
“The last thing I want to do is introduce someone to my kids, only to have that person disappear down the road” He’s not looking to just hook up, and when you think about it, that’s about as good as dating ever gets!
You are Loved Notes – Orlando
I am so excited to support the beautiful loving initiative of my new friend, Wendy Williams Watt …YOU ARE LOVED NOTES
I left today armed with my homework and blank pieces of paper and I am passing it forward to my “loving Matchmaker tribe” to handwrite YOU ARE LOVED- on every one of them, for her to give out at the end of July to 50 Thousand open hearts during PRIDE in Vancouver BC.
For those of you who wish to write notes with us this week, please drop by our office, and know that Wendy plans to hand deliver them to as many hearts and palms as possible. We know this first hand—there is always someone waiting to hear they are loved! Big Love Ball Wendy Williams-Watt