Need inspiration-watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R45HcYA8uRA
Are you haunted by regrets about a relationship from your past that didn’t work out “I should have tried harder” or regret not taking a chance to see what could have been “the one that got away”.
The real truth is that most have had at least a few romantic regrets-and they definitely do matter.
According to a recent study from Northwestern University, while women were more likely than men to have regrets about romantic relationships, men had their fair share as well. About 44 percent of the regrets described by women were about relationship mistakes, compared to 19 percent for men. Despite that obvious gender difference in the study’s results, men who cared deeply for the women they lost are just as regretful, if not more so, than women.
Tip: Use your regrets as motivation to do things differently the next time you’re with someone or thinking of meeting someone new. You’re so ahead of the game if you can learn from the past and not make the same mistake twice.
Bottom line: A healthy amount of regret is a good thing, because it can motivate you to get things right when the chance presents itself with someone new. In the end, we all make romantic mistakes — but it’s how you get up and rebound from them that matters most. Instead of letting regret dominate your thoughts, give yourself credit for what you’ve done right and focus on not repeating those patterns from past relationships that didn’t work out in the future.
Hurts so Good ?
We all know that breakups can be really hard and we all cope in our own individual ways. Here’s a couple of ways that might help you heal faster and even help you make a little money to move on and put towards working with a Matchmaker!
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What’s your biggest REGRET…..in Love?
Need inspiration-watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R45HcYA8uRA
Are you haunted by regrets about a relationship from your past that didn’t work out “I should have tried harder” or regret not taking a chance to see what could have been “the one that got away”.
The real truth is that most have had at least a few romantic regrets-and they definitely do matter.
According to a recent study from Northwestern University, while women were more likely than men to have regrets about romantic relationships, men had their fair share as well. About 44 percent of the regrets described by women were about relationship mistakes, compared to 19 percent for men. Despite that obvious gender difference in the study’s results, men who cared deeply for the women they lost are just as regretful, if not more so, than women.
Tip: Use your regrets as motivation to do things differently the next time you’re with someone or thinking of meeting someone new. You’re so ahead of the game if you can learn from the past and not make the same mistake twice.
Bottom line: A healthy amount of regret is a good thing, because it can motivate you to get things right when the chance presents itself with someone new. In the end, we all make romantic mistakes — but it’s how you get up and rebound from them that matters most. Instead of letting regret dominate your thoughts, give yourself credit for what you’ve done right and focus on not repeating those patterns from past relationships that didn’t work out in the future.
70 is the New 50 ; She’s Living Proof
As seen in the Times Colonist Sunday May 29 2016 – Victoria BC
Pursuit of Happiness in Victoria
As seen in the Times Colonist in Victoria BC – Saturday May 28, 2016
“Laughter is the Shortest Distance Between Two People”
As you know, laughing increases your threshold for pain, lowers blood pressure, reduces stress hormones, and triggers the release of endorphins – your body’s natural painkillers. A good chuckle can even be contagious, uplifting the mood of those around you and enhancing the quality of …….yes, even you’re DATING experiences.
Here’s a few self-induced, laugh therapy warm-up tips to try prior to your stressful DATING LIFE;
Note: “Laughter is the shortest distance between two people” Victor Borge
Dear Jane, NICHE Magazine, Winter 2014
Dear Jane, NICHE Magazine, Spring 2014
Dear Jane, NICHE Magazine, Holiday 2014
Dear Jane, NICHE Magazine, Holiday 2013
Choose LOVE-happy May!
Want some inspiration for a new month! Choose LOVE! A very happy client sent me this photo today, making breakfast for her new love……-happy May!
Over 6 months ago, I had the absolute pleasure in introducing two people, who had tried for a while now to find love. HE signed up for my custom search where not only did I look within my database of existing clients, I scouted as well. Well it didn’t take long as SHE reached out after seeing what she liked in the ad, and the rest is history. Two people who cant be happier.
Congratulations to them both for reaching out and choosing Love!-happy May!