The secret to a happy dating life is to date someone who is happy.

 

How often have I heard people say that “dating is hard work”? Too many times!

Admittedly, at some point, these anecdotes can sound like a broken record on repeat, but like any other record out there, there’s real substance inside it that you need to hear.

It is true that dating and finding your person is tough work and that it is an undertaking you can’t just get out of. However, instead of focusing on the “tough” parts, why don’t we focus on how you can improve your dating life.

DATE SOMEONE WHO IS HAPPY.

Of course, HAPPY is not a constant but find someone who doesn’t have their default permanently set on panic, fight or flight or victim mode.